Friday, September 14, 2012

Four Generations on the Hudson


“We're three generations living on the Hudson River, mom” my son, Peter said to me not too long ago. “Well, four...” I corrected him, reminding him that my grandson is the fourth. I had never thought of it that way, but yes, there we all were on any given day, dotting the river's shoreline, watching the same brackish water lapping and waving, feeling the tidal pulse rushing from New York Harbor to Albany and beyond. If I were a Hudson Valley eagle coasting overhead, I would have seen my mom sitting on her deck overlooking the tennis courts and marina in Hastings; me, walking Toby in the shadow of the Palisades Cliffs; and Pete, Lori, and Jack, grabbing a burger or lobster roll on the North Cove of Battery Park.

I am obsessed by this river. I admit it. First thing in the morning, before I listen to the news and the weather, I'm at the window checking out the condition of the river. White caps and racing – it is the Hudson Ocean. Still and silky – it is the Hudson Lake. Ice chunks and barely moving – the Hudson Skating Rink. Grey and speckled – Hudson Rain Forest. And the sunsets! Of course the russet, fuchsia and gold colors of the sunsets. Yes I am obsessed.

I learned to love the Hudson growing up a few blocks from its shoreline in Inwood, Manhattan. Inwood is the neighborhood at the pointy narrow northern tip of Manhattan, bordered on three sides by water: the Hudson River to the West, the Harlem River to the East, and Spuyten Duyvil Creek to the north, which connects the rivers. As a kid in the 50's I spent a lot of time on “The Speedway” and at the “River Fields” as we referred to the east and west river parks. Activities included playing softball with my crowd (now you'd say friends), climbing around on the huge boulders scattered on the riverbank, walking down the Speedway paths, and occasionally, a picnic with family. Mom told stories of watching the George Washington Bridge construction as a young girl, dad told stories of swimming across the river (debatable) and sometimes we fished for eels. More likely we spied rats running around the broken-down docks at the end of Dyckman Street.

But my favorite time was finding a big flat rock on the Hudson River's edge and stretching out in the sun. Most times I had a book that I picked up at the library on Broadway, and a sweatshirt rolled up under my head. I could stay there for hours even with the threat of seeing a rat run by. I craved the peace and quiet away from the monsters in my imagination and the struggles of my reality. I'd actually be distracted from reading by the soft lapping of the water against the rocks. The sound was – still is – the most peaceful, calming, and alluring sound my heart has ever thumped to.

My love affair with the Hudson continued throughout my teenage years and adulthood, to this day as I have found a place to live where I can watch and listen to the river every day. Some of the best times I can remember in recent years have been sitting on the deck with mom, her binoculars in hand, watching the bright white sailboats and the colorful tugboats go by. One day we followed the Hudson River Clearwater sailing north with wonder; one day we watched the Tall Towers blazing to the south in horror.

I guess my son has caught the obsession, drawn to live near the river, loving time spent at the river parks with his family. Today, I add to my list of bests and favorites the time I spend with my grandson at Battery Park every week. We stroll or jaunt up and down the river walk, stopping at North Cove to gaze at the sailboats and watching the ferries come in and out. We wave and say hi to Lady Liberty in the distance, and we listen to the water lapping against the rocks. I tell him, here is your beautiful Hudson River. The Hudson is your family, the Hudson is your people. With that, he wriggles his hand out of mine and chases after the New York City pigeons.

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